Album “In Her Own Lane”: 9. A Man Of Sophistication

“This song was so personal to me that I almost gave up on it. I started to feel burned out, having re-written 16 versions – yes, different versions, not just edits/adjustments. We tried countless arrangements for each version before we got here. I hope you enjoy it. “

-Petra Deeter

  • Originally this song was intended to be called “Lost in Music” (a wordplay to Air Supply’s “Lost in Love”) and Petra deliberately included in this song the quotes/references to 4 other songs (marked in the lyrics below):
  • * The part of lyrics in Air Supply’s song “Making Love Out of Nothing at All”:
  • …”And I know just how to lie
  • I know just how to fake it
  • And I know just how to scheme…”
  • ** Eagles’ song “Hotel California”
  • *** The part of lyrics in Air Supply’s song “Lost in Love”:
  • …”Lost in love and I don’t know much”…
  • **** The part of lyrics in ABBA’s song “The Winner Takes It All”
  • …”I was in your arms Thinking I belonged there”…

[Verse 1]

Under the Eiffel Tower, by the Seine, I recall our chat

About going from Paris to Istanbul on the Orient Express

You were a man of sophistication, and I was impressed

A life together, ever after, to see the world, was our quest.

[Chorus]

Listening to Air Supply together, I fell in love with you

It said you knew just how to scheme and lie (*), sadly itโ€™s true

Your pursuit was deliberate, charmed me with sweet melodies

I’ll love myself again, searching for my own symphony

[Verse 2]

Over time, you laughed at me for being a globetrotter

I am not ashamed for travel fuels my sweet hunger

Itโ€™s always an honor to taste and embrace other cultures,

The world is a vast and magical place, filled with wonders.

[Chorus]

Listening to Air Supply together, I fell in love with you

It said you knew just how to scheme and lie, sadly itโ€™s true

Your pursuit was deliberate, charmed me with sweet melodies

I’ll love myself again, searching for my own symphony

[Verse 3]

Under the Eiffel Tower, by the Seine, I recall our chat

About going from Paris to Istanbul on the Orient Express

You were a man of sophistication, and I was impressed

A life together, ever after, to see the world was our quest.

[Bridge]

Driving back from Mexico, we played an Eagles song

“Hotel California” (**), we agreed, a love story, gone wrong.

Lost in love and I didn’t know much (***), though I felt so strong

Tragically, in your arms, I was never meant to belong (****).

[Chorus]

Listening to Air Supply together, I fell in love with you

It said you knew just how to scheme and lie, sadly itโ€™s true

Your pursuit was deliberate, charmed me with sweet melodies

I’ll love myself again, searching for my own symphony

[Outro]

Strolling Rue Lepic with a fresh baguette in my hand,

The friendly Paris pigeons became my new best friends.

Through the grief stages, my heart and soul started to mend

I finally reached acceptance: you were never ever my man.